Supporter Ryan in a Winston's Wish t-shirt as he embarks on 12 marathons in 12 months

Ryan is completing an incredibly impressive challenge for Winston’s Wish this year by running a whopping 12 marathons in 12 months. Not only that, but he’s also chosen to approach it in a uniquely clever way, to reflect some people’s experience of grief and to show the value of receiving support. We asked him to tell us more…

I am trying to complete 12 marathons in 12 months.  Each marathon is not official. I am running it on my own, with no support. When you struggle with things on your own, don’t share them or battle with them internally, it only makes it much harder to overcome. I lost my dad when I was 15 and it has had a cost on my mental health – I have found that getting help and talking about it has helped, much like running marathons with people and support makes it much easier. I hope the metaphor makes sense…

When I lost my dad there was very little support for me or for my family. The cost of losing loved ones so early in life can cost the individual and the family unit dearly.  Help support and access to services is so important. I think Winston’s Wish does incredible and important work.

I am told from those that have supported the charity through my challenges that the story and challenge are quite inspiring. I have tried to be honest about why I am doing this and do something that tests my capacity. Through my personal experience, I think when people hear the story, can see the need for charities that support young, bereaved children.

Focus on process not the outcome and when it has been its hardest, think about those who have supported me, and those that the funds will support. It makes it easy!

Most enjoyable – learning about myself, what I can achieve and the amazing conversations the challenge has generated.

Least enjoyable – feeling sick, cramps, not being able to walk and the creeping dread of running the next one!

Do it!  It’s so rewarding to know that you might be helping raise awareness of the charity and raise funds to help those who will benefit from it.

As someone who has worked in high performance sport for the nearly 20 years supporting athletes and coaches – I could give lots of advice, but I will give just one thought/reflection – once you set your mind to the task and make it public, no matter how hard it is, you can do it!  Mind over matter.

Huge thanks to Ryan for sharing his experience this year with us and of course for all of his amazing dedication and applause worthy fundraising efforts too.

Two female supporters smiling at the camera in their Winston's Wish vests

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